I need advice on my bird of paradise. She was one of my first plants, earlier this year when I was a total amateur. I’d say I’m more beginner now. So we faced many issues together. First, there used to be 2 in this pot. I didn’t have her in enough light, and she got root rot bad. I cleaned up her (and her sisters roots) and repotted. I put her on my back porch for more light and heat/humidity (hot summer months at that time). Sister plant died. She dropped many leaves, but somehow made it. She got two new leaves, was doing well. Shortly after this, spider mites. I treated. I cleaned her. I treated again. I’m *pretty sure* they are now gone. I’m at the point now it’s getting colder out and she needs to come inside. I have not repotted, checked roots, I’m honestly scared to touch her. Which brings me to my question: what do I do now 🥲
