I was gifted these Alocasias. Theyâre beautiful. However they came with a secondary gift. Spider mites. I know how to get rid of them so thatâs all fine, my question for everyone is do you let the person you got them from know that they have spider mites? Itâs someone that isnât super into plants and Iâm not sure how to politely be like âhey girl, ya got pestsâ without it sounding offensive