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title: "I have accepted defeat in growing my monstera in our bedroom after…"
description: "I have accepted defeat in growing my monstera in our bedroom after its dropped its second leaf, now its going right next to my MIL’s that I setup so much…"
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# I have accepted defeat in growing my monstera in our bedroom after…

_Publié par MyloWylo le 2025-10-12_

I have accepted defeat in growing my monstera in our bedroom after its dropped its second leaf, now its going right next to my MIL’s that I setup so much better than the one I got myself 😂, gonna keep her and see what happens but Im quite disappointed. (Moss pole is mine, one without is my MIL) any suggestions for big leaf plants that are good in super low lighting to try out instead of this in our room?

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## 11 commentaires

### Lizzi a commenté le 2025-10-12

I know that moss pole from anywhere ! 😂Britney Oasis , right?

#### MyloWylo ha respondido el 2025-10-12

Not sure what ya meant, i got this one on amazon and im not sure what the brand was I just knew it was the type i wanted to use 😅 ive got like 4 more poles to be assembled but no good plants for them

#### Lizzi ha respondido el 2025-10-12

Oh nvm awkward moment lol 🤣🤣🤣 there is a planter on TikTok who makes different moss poles just like that one named Britney Oasis

#### Janeen ha respondido el 2025-10-12

Well now I have to go look up Britney Oasis! 🤪

#### Lizzi ha respondido el 2025-10-12

She is on tiktok

### Ginger C a commenté le 2025-10-12

Monstera Peru will grow in low light and its leaf can get large. A couple of philodendrons might be good and have a bigger leaf - red emerald and fantasy.

#### MyloWylo ha respondido el 2025-10-19

I went and picked up a red emerald!!! Gonna let it grow a bit more before i attach it to a pole

### happysoxdonkey a commenté le 2025-10-12

You can also get a grow light to help them out. They work so well!

#### Janeen ha respondido el 2025-10-12

This is the best thing, what Happysoxdonkey said—get a grow light! Meet your plant’s needs.

#### happysoxdonkey ha respondido el 2025-10-12

Yes I have a sansi grow light in my bedroom. It has two bulbs and I leave it on during the day. My plants are doing so much better since adding it. I also love big leaf plants the best and my monsteras are growing so quickly with it.

![Pièce jointe 1 sur 1](https://images.getplanta.com/v1/resize/sSflF8KPRloMyMLT9fryLEFvtSLABtILREHSIta8QrE/gXol2vgATBi-u4L3PCxK1w.webp?size=large)

### MyloWylo a commenté le 2025-10-19

I have a grow light i just dont think its strong enough! The one in the living room (MIL’s) has my super strong grow light on it so until i can figure out better lighting for the bedroom ive pickup a philo red emerald

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